I can get so mad when people don’t take care of those who can’t take care of themselves (like animals). I don’t like to be mad. It makes me feel bad, therefore, making me madder at what made me mad in the first place!
Recently a woman was standing in a line at the DMV in Missouri and fired her gun into the air because the line was too slow. I don’t know if she calmed down after being thrown to the ground, handcuffed, and taken to jail. My point is that this example, in its most basic form, is radical anger.
When a kernel of radical anger is planted, it grows from what it’s fed. Today, political issues (groan) feeds this type of anger whether from public sources or in hidden back ‘rooms’. Social media and different slants provided by different news agencies are often the triggers.
The good news from this is that our freedom allows us to choose our party of choice: Democrat, Republican, Libertarian, Independent, Green and my favorite, Humane (animal rights). There are more than 100 additional parties to choose from. How good is that?
Sadly, the kernel of radical anger is growing in so many different directions that chaos is feeding radical anger. Humans have lost our ability to be both different and united. When did we stop thinking and deliberating on issues? Recognition of differences, even if it’s not “your thing”, in and of themselves should unite us; sadly, they do not.
So, do we risk an extreme reaction like the woman in the DMV line; or do we can choose a different method?
To find common ground for common causes, while respecting individual rights.
By not feeding our kernel of anger and use:
Truth over Lie.
Kindness over rudeness
Accepting your way is not my way – love diffuses hate.
Evidence of Success?
Feed the kernels of honesty, respect and love as we remember what our country, and many other countries, were founded on, which is (for purposes of today’s blog, my reference to county is America):
“I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the Republic for which it stands, one nation under God, indivisible with liberty and justice for all.”
John Dickinson, Founding Father in his pre-revolutionary song, “The Liberty Song” wrote, “Then join hand in hand, brave Americans all! By uniting we stand, by dividing we fall.”
We the people created this county. Let’s not demolish it.
America must maintain the identity of what God blessed America with. We welcome all in our big ole’ melting pot, sharing, working, learning, and trusting our personal savior. Every individual brings something to the mix, not to dominate, but by doing the right thing in the right way.
Proverbs 15:18 “A hot-tempered man stirs up strife, but he who is slow to anger quiets contention.”
It’s just that simple.
…can grow anywhere at anytime, faster and denser than a patch of kudzu weed. Where does it come from? What nourishes it? How do you recognize it?
This week we celebrate the freedom of the United States of America. How do we guard and protect that freedom from apathy?
Well, can you cite at least one good thing our current president has done for our country? Here’s my example: he brought the remains of U.S. soldiers from the North Korean War home to American soil. My father was a veteran of that war, all defending our freedom. This was something to give thanks for as it brought closure and honor to so many.
Do you know who your state government officials in Washington are?
Do you know who your local government officials are?
Do you know that these officials ran for public office to serve? Therefore, you can and should contact them when you have questions, concerns and suggestions.
If you couldn’t answer even ONE of these questions I ask you to consider this – when did that kernel of apathy get planted in your heart and soul? Has it been there so long you fail to recognize it for what it is?
On this July 4, 2019, let us never forget the powerful words that not only declared America as a free nation, but also what it means to be free:
“We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights that among these are Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness.”
——U.S. Declaration of Independence July 4, 1776
God, our Creator, gave us this freedom along with His Holy guidance to secure and honor that freedom. Let us be thankful and never forget that…
God Blessed America.
“And the Lord is the Spirit: and where the spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom.”
2 Cor. 3:17
breadcrumbs of our life.
“Kernels are seeds we plant as we journey through life, from season to season.”
We leave kernels behind like tracks in the sand that show our past seasons; but, like sand near the ocean, the seasons of wind and water erase them. They become bittersweet memories or just bitter memories, leaving scars. They come in the form of words, actions, behaviors, thoughts, emotions, intentions and often, ‘un-intentions’.
Each Wednesday, here on my blog, Sparklers: Lights of Grace, you will rise and shine, greeted by my ‘something to think about’ Wednesday blog called, Sparklers Garden: Kernels of…. My greatest hope is that by planting our kernels we will reset our view about whatever season we are traveling in.
A Kernel of Faith
A kernel of faith is all you need to get through the ups and downs of life’s many seasons. Right?
Some seasons are crystal clear. The sky is blue, the varying hues of nature crisp and the heart is bursting with the joy of it all – we see it. For this, we give thanks with all our heart and soul.
But, sometimes it can be so bright that all you see is what’s right in front of you. This makes it hard to know where the blessings came from, therefore making it easy to feel invincible.
Meanwhile other seasons can be a mist of pain and darkness where there is no up, no down, and no side to side.
Either of these causes life to lose its luster. Either also makes the world seem flat. Our steps try to go backward to a bright and easy season in our life. But, those footprints are gone and we eventually collide with a big rubber wall that bounces us right back to the present.
Our season may be murky. We run to the right — smack into a hard wall. We try it again with a slightly different direction, ziz-zagging our way to the left, then to the right as if we can fool life into a different season.
There’s no fooling the seasons of life, so again we smack into a wall, this time staggering upright, bruises and all. The only direction left is forward, but the swirling mist hides what waits for us there. Scary, huh?
Perhaps, much like the long ago theory that the earth is flat, our life too has become flat. If we go forward, we might just step off the edge. Then what? Well, when a season in life changes, there’s no way to go back. It’s also impossible to remain still. Stagnation becomes a living death.
Moving into the next season is the only option. But that’s scary. It’s going to take courage and we can’t find it in the fog that surrounds us. Where can this much courage be found?
Listen and hear those words in your head – the two words that provide direction. Those words are, “you know”.
You know to raise your hands to heart level – yes both at the same time. In one you speak your fear; in the other you speak your faith; both of the unknown facing you. Then you put them together, clasped in prayer, releasing fears by giving them to God – and don’t even think about taking them back (remember that rubber wall?).
This is when the grace of courage is given. Works every time – in His timing.
It’s hard to to see evidence of faith in times like these when the entire world seems flat. Let’s grow this Sparkler Garden!
Please, share your own Kernel of… in the comments section in hopes that your kernel will touch at least one person reading it, and that one person is changed and in the doing, will provide a kernel that will grow in someone else.
“Now the parable is this: the seed is the word of God.”
Women don’t leave a relationship easily, even when it is one of pain. They tend to give the benefit of the doubt more than is wise – trusting that the other person didn’t mean to cause harm. She eventually learns that your damage, while difficult, didn’t reach her mind or her soul. This realization is her point of no return. She is finished with you.
Hers is a forever good-bye. Nothing you can say or do will change that. You’re fooling yourself if you think otherwise. Her trust has been destroyed. She is so much stronger because she now knows that she deserves better than what you could ever give her. She moves forward, totally detached from whatever space you had taken up in her life. She will never reattach to your kind of betrayal.
You are only a fading dark spot on the horizon– a minor mistake made and forgotten. She doesn’t look back. Her eyes face the next season as life brings forth the joys and blessings that were meant for her all along. She has experienced the worst from you. She cherishes her new best life and is thankful for it.
You are not, nor will you be, any part of her life – ever. Civility and respect means that NO means NO. You don’t have a say in her definition of that word. The best you can hope for is that she has forgiven you.
Take heed: Forgiveness does not mean reconciliation.
Understand these words… and go fix yourself.
I haven’t posted a blog in six months.
What’s that about?
So, I thought I could sit and draft 50 words or so and say I have.
So I typed some words. Then I deleted them. I typed some more – deleted them too.
Then I just stared at the blank screen and noticed a pop up message that said, “You haven’t written anything yet.”
That was helpful. No, I’m not being glib. It was helpful because it made me think.
What else have I not done?
–haven’t lost that 10 pounds I’ve talked about for yeeeeeeears.
–haven’t gone to Italy – I really want to go.
–haven’t … hmmmm, so many have nots that I’m embarrassed to list them.
Better to list my haves I think!
–have accepted Jesus Christ as my personal savior
–have loved and been loved by my husband and children
–have learned unconditional love from my dog
–have many wonderful family and friends
-have good health
–have made a difference in people’s lives
–have made mistakes – have asked for forgiveness – have given forgiveness – have forgiven myself
–have helped others in little ways because those add up to big ways
-have lived a happy life.
Ah, this is helpful because it makes me think. I’ve actually done all of the important things in life.
Aren’t I lucky.
As my friend Valye said, “No honey, you are blessed. God doesn’t do lucky.
Sunrise brings light to darkness as this security camera caught on tape, in 33 seconds – the time it takes to inhale deeply, to smile – to blink.
According to Answer.com, the average person blinks 6.2 million times in a year. As 2017 closes…in a few short hours, we will celebrate the joys, recognize the sadness, and hopefully, remember what it taught us. It seems we were here at this time and place – only a blink ago – welcoming in 2017.
But what is a blink? Perhaps it is this very moment.
Now blink. What were you doing? Thinking of what will be? Was it with regret or with hope?
It only takes a blink …
… to be born.
… to die.
…to be grateful.
…to feel sorrow.
…to forgive and to be forgiven.
… to experience peace.
… to be in the moment and to know that moment.
What will you do with your 6.2 million blinks in 2018?
1 Corinthians 15:52 ESV
“In a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, and the dead will be raised imperishable, and we shall be changed.”